Surprise!

no surprises... wow so I haven't blogged in 2 years. What

a difference 2 years make. So much has happened...but

since I am here and candace's blog has inspired me to

write again I may as well do some random writing. This

song is the song I have always thought about walking

down the wedding isle with my loved one arm in arm.

I don't believe that any "family member" needs to

"give away" the bride. I feel like that is an antiquated

tradition and that I do not need someone to give me

away, as I am my own being, giving myself to whom I

choose, without the approval of my "father". Shit... it's

not like he also has a dowery to give to the potential

victim as a consolation prize. "My wife is a biatch...but

I did get a goat and an acre of land so I guess its a

good deal???" I also feel like having one person stand

in the front while the other walks down the isle is

unequal and you all know the libra in me wants

everything to be fair. (plus I don't think I would want all

that attention...all eyes on me? No thank you!) I believe

the 2 people getting married should walk down the isle

in front of the guests together, thus "no surprises" is the

perfect song to do so with my loved one. I have heard

this song done by a string quartet which I believe would

be very appropriate as well as other radiohead songs

and bjork songs all just beautiful done with just strings.

That is my vision.